Choosing You

You can share a bed with someone and still feel profoundly alone.

 

You can know their coffee order, their passwords, and exactly how they load the dishwasher, and still have no idea what they are afraid to tell you. Somewhere along the way, love became efficient. Bills paid. Birthdays remembered. And quietly, someone is wondering: Would you still choose me if you actually saw me?

 

Choosing You is about that question.

 

In 22 short chapters, therapist, relationship coach, medium and shamanic practitioner Joanne May shows you how to bring attention, courage and emotional depth back into the way you love. You'll learn to say what you need without apologising, to hear an honest answer, and to keep choosing the person in front of you as they are today.

 

WHAT YOU'LL EXPLORE

• How to ask for closeness, affection and time without turning it into a demand

• Receiving love without apologising for needing it

• What happens when an old wound enters a new conversation, and how to respond instead of react

• The conversations you keep avoiding, and the words that open them

• Listening until you truly understand

• Slowing down, touch and the language of the body

• The stories your love inherits from the generations before you

• Turning friction into understanding

• A promise you can practise every single day

 

WHAT'S INSIDE

• 22 short chapters of about seven pages each

• 21 practices to try, alone or together

• More than a hundred highlighted "bridge builder" sentences to return to in the moment you need them

 

WHO IT'S FOR

For anyone who feels called to it. You might be in a long relationship that has gone quiet, starting a new one you want to build well, or single and wanting to become clearer about the love you offer and the love you are willing to receive.

 

ABOUT JOANNE MAY

Joanne May was born in Paramaribo, Suriname, and has guided people in their personal and spiritual growth since she was twenty. From her practice in the Netherlands she works as a therapist, relationship coach, medium and shamanic practitioner with individuals, couples and groups. Her clients describe her as warm, powerful, sharp and safe.

 

DETAILS

PDF e-book · 161 pages · English · instant download. The pages are designed to read comfortably on a phone, and the contents page is clickable.

 

"I see you. I choose you. I am here."

 

This book is offered for reflection and general information and is not a substitute for medical, psychological or therapeutic care.

 

You will get a PDF (1MB) file